Beeing popular was cool, I did not shamed about what I said and do. I could talk with anyone I wanted, well I felt really good about the situation. Bothering my classmates was really cool, I laughed a lot and did not cared about how the others were going to feel. Do not think that I made rude jokes or something like that, well, my jokes were things to laugh and be happy. During classes, I always talked and talked; I liked to bother one of my classmates, she was kind of a friend, well she was only a classmate, but I had great times talking with her during classes. She was too closed with her life, she never talked about the people she liked or situations that happened in her life, so I bothered her by being interested in all t he things she did not wanted to talk about. One day, she talked about a guy called Juanfra, and she said that he was one of his brother’s friends and that she really liked him. Just to bother her, I wanted to meet that guy; I really was not interested in the guy, I was just living my life and I did not wanted to have a boyfriend.
That was the time, when I went back home from school, and spend all my afternoon in the computer, talking with everyone in the messenger and spending my time doing nothing interesting. One day, I met a guy, who was a friend of that girl’s brother, and I asked him that he knew that guy called Juanfra, and he told me that he was one of his friends, so I asked him for the e-mail, so I could add him to my list of friends in messenger. After I add him to my list of friends, I went to school and talked to the girl of my class about the guy, just to bother her. Time went by, and one day in the school, one guy talked me, he said “are you majo?” minutes later I knew that he was Juanfra. In the moment I met him, I went into his beautiful eyes; I talked to him for a while and then I went back to my classroom. All day long I thought about his eyes, I was really impressed about those beautiful eyes and my perspective about the guy changed.
Time went by, I knew that I was just bothering that girl, but then after talking with him in the messenger I started to realize that he was a great guy. I did not felt guilty about my feelings because the girl liked that guy but he does not liked her, just because he was the best friend of the girl’s brother; and as a rule of friendship, friends does not mix up with sisters or brothers. One day, I was in the car with my mother, and my cellphone rang, I picked up and somebody said “hello majo, do you remember me?” and I said “No, who is it?” minutes later, he told me that he was Juanfra, and we talked for a while. The next weeks, he called me, we talked for hours, about any topic or just about stupid things. Everything was interesting, I was feeling comfortable with him and I really liked him.
One month later, I decided to go to a concert of Bacilos with my friends, and Juanfra t old me that he was going to go too. In the concert, we danced and talked a lot, and at the end he told me if I wanted to be his girlfriend, and of course I said yes. The next weeks we went out some times and spent great times together. The relationship was incredible and we ere having a great time. We were together in school, and also we went out to the movies and parties.
As life changes and time goes by, we created a great relationship. Now, five years ago after I met him, he is still by boyfriend. We have matured together and we also have created a great relationship, with great qualities that make us to be together and feel comfortable forever. As every relationship, we have had some issues, but the clue of every relationship is to know how to solve the problems and get the positive consequences of them. He has helped me during my life to become a better person and I know that I have helped him too. Is really difficult to know the clues for every step that we take in life, but we are experimenting what to do, to have positive consequences of the things we do. As I tell him “we are a relationship, and the purpose of it is to put together both ideas and perspectives of life to get a better result”.
Today, August 11, 2008; I am living my life with a great boyfriend, a great relationship, and the best part of everything is that the girl that liked Juanfra, before he was boyfriend is my best friend. After many years of fighting because the issue that that girl and I had before I met Juanfra, the time went by and it solved the issues that we had. Two years ago, I started talking to her again and we became great friends. We have a lot of things in common and I know that this friendship will last forever. Is incredible that now, I can have a great conversation and a great time with my boyfriend and my best friend. I love them and I really care about both; and I know both help he to be a better person every day.
